Flirting basics
There are many different schools of thought when it comes to the art of pickup. But here are some flirting basics:
- Three seconds rule – When see some one that you are attracted to, don’t wait walk up and start talking BEFORE you can convince yourself not to.
- Smile – Smile and the world smiles with you. Frown and you frown alone.
- Be relaxed – Who would be nervous talking with a girl? Someone without confidence.
- Have fun – If you are not having fun… she will not be having fun.
- Negs – Playful teasing is essentially what flirting is. Keep your negs playful with a smile NEVER hurtful with a scowl.
- Kino – Light non-invasive touching, slowly ramp it up if she is comfortable with you.
- Be funny – Take a risk and say a joke. Everyone knows a sense of homor is sexy
- Don’t too give many IOI’s right off the bat – If you give her too many indicators of interest right off the bat you will come across as desperate.
- Don’t be someone you aren’t – Women will see through it in a heartbeat if you are in any way being disingenuous.
- Oh and most important: Practice!!! But we highly recommend talking a Standard Dating bootcamp first so you know EXACTLY what you need to focus on.